It's Your Responsibility
Many people blame others and circumstances for their negative experiences. And yet, the blaming keeps them stuck. Supporting such an “Effect” State (“They’re doing it to me”) only masks the symptoms of the underlying problem. The problem is the unwillingness on the part of most people to take total responsibility for their own experience.
The truth is simple: we are responsible for everything in our experience, whether we like it or not. Liking or not liking the situation is only a matter of evaluation.
The corollary problem is equally as devastating. People often look to therapy, the government or religion to support and “save” them, which is the opposite of the Blame Game. In other words, instead of saying that something or someone is “doing it to them,” they wait for something or someone to “do it for them.”
In order for any of your experiences to have meaning, you need to assume the position of “cause.” Otherwise, you’re constantly searching for the latest, the best, the most wonderful “transformation” experience, and then feeling frustration because the impact doesn’t last.
YOU are the one who makes your life work. YOU are the one who gets it all together, not someone or something else.
To assume that you’re actually the cause of your experience goes to the root, the basis, the heart of the matter. To do so is to allow change to take place without “efforting”, working at it, or trying to make it happen.
Assuming a cause position enables you to take charge and to see the perfection of your experience. Only then can you have true success and satisfaction in your your job, your relationships and, indeed, your life. This book gives you the road map and the push you need to take all the steps necessary to create the life you want and are meant to have. “Being the Cause” is the book you have been waiting for!
